Question

"I don't like this class and this world, I'm I going away", fifteen year old Shana burst out when her teacher enquired there for her constant late coming. The situation hurts the teacher's ego and the teacher felt insul-ted. If you are the teacher, what will be your response?

• A. I shall pull her out from the class and repeat the question once more
• B. I shall keep mum and continue my class
• C. I shall tell her to bring parent and continue the class
• D. I shall tell her don't worry, I can understand you and let's discuss the matter personally later

Answer 1

Answer:

D. I shall tell her don't worry, I can understand you and let's discuss the matter personally later

In psychology, understanding others and being empathetic can involve: 

• Being curious

  Ask about others' feelings, ideas, and opinions, and show a genuine interest in them. 

• Being kind

  Imagine how you would feel if you were the target of gossip or ridicule, and try not to join in. 

• Being attentive

  Be aware of how others are feeling, and choose empathetic responses when they tell you something difficult. 

• Using empathetic words

  When you use words like "don't worry", you can tell the other person that you understand their concerns and share the burden. 

Here are some other ways to be more compassionate:

• Ask what you can do to help when a friend is going through a difficult time.

• If your friend says they don't know what they need, offer to do something similar to what you'd want in the same situation.